Here's a bit of our story -
put on our web site because I (Jan) am a
questioner and I like to UNDERSTAND people, web pages, events,
conversations, etc. It's what I do since I am an
INTP (one of the Myers/Briggs Personality Types.) Gary is, of course, my opposite, an EFSJ, which usually means he is not interested in the whys - just in the doing. Ah! Life!
How did God prepare us for the unusual life we live - traveling, living in Mighty Whitey (our original van, Mighty Whitey, a 1999 1 ton Chevy Express van, had over 400,000 miles on her, so she was replaced with MW Chapter Two in April of 2010) and helping parents choose great books for their children? Did we KNOW God was preparing us??!!! Hadn't a clue!
I (Jan) received a B.S. degree from the University of Minnesota College of Education with a major in Physics and a minor in Math. I briefly taught 9th grade Science in a public school. It was challenging. I enjoyed Science and liked teaching, but I wanted to teach students who wanted to learn. Once I was home with our first baby, Jenni, I had no interest in going back into the classroom. Our son, JJ, was born on Jenni's third birthday, with Jodi, our second daughter, born halfway between them. In 3 years I had 3 children. YIKES! Parenting demanded all my time - thinking of returning to the classroom OR planning our children's education was way off in the future.
We began our homeschooling adventure in 1982 after attending a L'Abri seminar and hearing Ranald Macaulay speak on "The Educational Philosophy of Charlotte Mason." He introduced us to parent-led, learner-friendly education in which parents share the wonders and puzzles of God's world with their own children. We were delighted when we discovered that our desire to be with our children was NOT unique to us and, most importantly, was a GOOD thing.
Later that same summer Gary heard James
Dobson interview Raymond Moore, an advocate of delayed
learning, on a Focus on the Family radio program. Gary excitedly reviewed the interview for me and we agreed this fit with what we had heard at the L'Abri Conference. We wrote to Dobson, who gave us Dr. Moore's phone number. We called Dr. Moore (those were the days...) and learned that he was coming to the Twin Cities in a few months to do a seminar! We withdrew Jenni's application for pre-school and waited for the seminar. We
attended, met other people daring to homeschool, and were fully convinced that homeschooling was what we wanted for our family. We marvel at how God guided our steps.
Our homeschooling adventure began with reading what
Charlotte Mason identified as LIVING BOOKS.
We started our reading with suggestions in Honey for a Child's Heart by Gladys Hunt. Later, Books Children Love by
Elizabeth Wilson, and For the Children's Sake by Susan Macaulay brought more
authors to my attention. We discovered library sales as a source for great books and also bought books
at thrift stores and garage sales. Our home library grew.
We all loved to read.
I began selling used books at Minnesota homeschool book
sales in 1989 - back when MACHE was at Crystal Free Church. After
many years of learning about and looking for great books, 3 bookselling friends
and I decided to compile a list of our favorite authors and
series. That project became my first book, Who Should We Then Read?, which has found favor with homeschool vendors and book lovers.
In 2000, Gary and I ventured out of Minnesota to 3 homeschool conferences in other states. In the spring of 2001 we added more state conferences to our travels, until finally, in February of 2002, Gary quit his full-time job and we "hit the road" as full-time homeschool conference booksellers. (A brief note here - Gary went back to school and finished a B.S. degree in Psychology from Northwestern College in 1999. So now HE understands why we do what we do...sort of. He mostly likes to drive, work hard, and eat at Taco Bell!)
An update on our children: all three were homeschooled through high school. Jenni graduated in 1996, Jodi in 1998, and JJ in 1999.
They all (unexpectedly!) continued on to college. Currently (2010) our oldest daughter, Jenni, is finishing
her Master's Degree in English as a Second Language from St Cloud State
University. She and her hubby, Jason, are the happy parents of
Michael, born 11-18-04, Charlie, born 1-13-07, and Victoria (Tori), born 8-4-09, so working on her
degree is
not a priority - the children are!
Jodi, our second daughter, went to Colorado for Bible College and now lives and works in
Denver. I guess I played John Denver's Rocky Mountain High too many times as she was growing up! She beats me at Boggle. She's my fellow booklover.
Had anyone told us years ago that Gary and I would be traveling together in a van 8 months of the year,
showering at truck stops, sleeping in WalMart parking lots, and sharing
our lives with new best friends in homes and at homeschool
conferences, we would have quietly excused ourselves and gone somewhere to
chortle and guffaw. NOT US!
But it's what we now do and we LOVE it! It's always an adventure - traveling, talking, selling, buying, laughing, and experiencing God's kindness and mercies daily.